You already know something is wrong with your picker.

Most people don't know they have a pattern. You're already ahead just for being here.

Free to start. About 7 minutes.

What this is

You have been trying to figure this out for a long time, and it keeps circling back to the same place. This is where you stop and actually look at the pattern. Not to judge it. To understand it well enough to change it.

My Picker Is Broken is a relationship pattern tool built by a licensed trauma therapist. You take a short assessment. You receive a botanical profile that names exactly where you are. Then you enter a conversation that already knows you.

Your profile

Each name is a pattern. One of them is yours right now.

Wisteria Foxglove Moonflower Ghost Orchid Smoke Bush Bleeding Heart Datura Dodder Moonvine Venus Flytrap Creeping Jenny Nettle Dried Hydrangea Sensitive Plant

There are 28 profiles in total. You are one of them right now. You won't be forever.

How it works

1. Take the assessment. 28 questions. No wrong answers, only patterns worth understanding.

2. Receive your botanical picker profile. See where you are across 14 relationship patterns.

3. Enter a conversation that already knows where you are. Not general advice. Your pattern, specifically.

4. Come back when something happens and you need to orient yourself again. That is what this is for.

Some patterns were built before you were fully developed. This is where you finally get to see them clearly enough to change them.

Find out where you are

Built on clinical frameworks by a licensed trauma therapist. Not a replacement for therapy.