You already know something is wrong with your picker.

Most people don't know they have a pattern. You're already ahead just for being here.

Find out where you are

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What this is

You have been trying to figure this out for a long time, and it keeps circling back to the same place. This is where you stop and actually look at the pattern, not to judge it, but to understand it well enough to change it.

My Picker Is Broken is a relationship pattern tool built by someone who has sat with this for a long time. You take a short assessment. You receive a botanical profile that names exactly where you are. Then you enter a conversation that already knows you.

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There are 28 plants. You are one of them right now, and you won't be forever.

1.Take the assessment, 15 questions, no wrong answers

2.Receive your botanical picker profile

3.Enter a conversation that already knows where you are

4.Come back when something happens and you need to orient yourself again

Some patterns were built before you were fully developed. This is where you are finally able to see them and learn to change them.

Find out where you are

Built on clinical frameworks by a licensed trauma therapist.